In the Human Operating System dashboard there is an exercise that helps people uncover the key desire that drives their entire life.
You begin by making a list of everything you want.
Then you prioritize them.
Then you plumb the depths of each until you find how they are ultimately the same. Why? Because Singularity is key. It is the sacred beginning of everything worth doing. And it is the firmament on which the most powerful people stand.
Rumi agrees, albeit a bit more poetically:
A good gauge of spiritual health is to
write down the three things
you most want.
If they in any way differ,
you are in trouble.